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settling in doesn't need to be scary

"I will never forget the first time I left my little boy at nursery. I was terrified. What if he is thirsty and can't ask? What if he is 'forgotten about' and gets bored? He loves stories...I hope someone reads to him. He's so quiet and shy, what if he is overlooked?" Hannah Rosalie, Founder and Director, Seasons Nurseries.

At Seasons, we provide exceptional care so you can trust that your little one will be cared for exactly as you'd hoped whether they are 9 months old or 19 months old. This all comes down to trust, and that's something that will build over time.

 

Starting nursery is a big step for both children and their families. At Seasons we understand that this transition can bring a mixture of excitement, curiosity and sometimes a little anxiety. Our settling-in process is designed to be calm, gradual and responsive to each individual child so that everyone feels confident and supported from the very beginning. We believe that children settle best when strong relationships are built first. For that reason, we focus on helping children feel safe, known and comfortable before expecting them to spend longer periods away from their parents.

Getting to Know Your Child

Before your child starts with us, we take time to learn about them as an individual. Parents know their children best, so we value the information you share about their routines, interests and personality.

We will usually ask about things such as sleep routines, favourite activities, comfort objects, meal times, any worries or sensitivities. We call this our 'My World' document and will be completed shortly before you are due to start at Seasons. This helps us create a familiar and reassuring experience when your child first arrives.

The First Visits

Children usually begin with one or two short visits with a parent or carer present. These visits allow your child to explore the environment while knowing their trusted adult is nearby.

During this time they might explore the garden or outdoor spaces, meet the staff team, begin to play alongside other children, become familiar with the daily rhythm of the nursery. There is no pressure for children to separate straight away. These first visits are simply about helping them feel comfortable in a new place.

Your Child’s Key Person

Every child at Seasons is supported by a key person. This member of staff becomes the main adult responsible for helping your child feel settled and secure. They are not assigned immediately. It is far better to let your child choose who they are most comfortable with in their own time.

The key person will greet your child when they arrive at nursery, spend time playing and interacting with them, support them if they feel unsure, build a trusting relationship with both child and family. Having a consistent adult who knows them well helps children develop confidence in the nursery environment.

Gradual Separations

Once your child has had time to explore with you present, we begin introducing short separations. These might start with a brief period where you step away while your child plays with their key person.

Over a number of visits, these separations gradually increase as your child becomes more comfortable.

We always follow the child’s pace. Some children feel ready very quickly, while others benefit from a slower transition.

Communication with Parents

During the settling-in period and throughout your time at Seasons, we keep communication open and supportive. We will share how your child is doing, what they have enjoyed and how they are responding to the new environment. Parents are always welcome to ask questions or talk through any concerns. Working together helps children feel secure and supported. You can telephone the nursery manager direct on their mobile anytime between 8-5pm. We also use a handy parent app EYParent for updates, photos and messaging.

Every Child Settles Differently

There is no single timeline for settling into nursery. Some children feel confident after a few short sessions, while others take a little longer to feel completely comfortable. Our priority is always the child’s emotional wellbeing. By allowing the process to unfold gradually and building strong relationships first, children usually begin to feel that nursery is a place where they belong.

Beginning Your Child’s Journey at Seasons

If you are preparing for your child to start with us, we look forward to welcoming your family and supporting this important transition. Our aim is simple: to help children begin their nursery experience feeling safe, happy and ready to explore the world around them.

Contact

If you have any questions or queries about the settling process, please call the nursery direct.

07514 412900

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